So Close and Yet So Far: Four Signs You May Be Settling as a Leader  

With the kickoff of the Fall season, I pray this message encourages you.

Leaders like to set goals. I confess to you that sometimes when I set a goal,  I get about 80-90 percent of the way there, then find myself moving on to the next goal without crossing the finish line. Consistency, tenacity and perseverance are daily, prayerful practice. 

Recently I’ve learned some signs from the Israelites to avoid settling as a leader. One of my favorite stories in the Old Testament is about Moses and the Israelites’ exodus and their 40-year journey into the Promised Land of Canaan. They persevered and Moses led them. Joshua was chosen to lead the final way into the Promised Land.

What would normally have been an 11-day trip took 40 years as they wandered into the wilderness. This time reading this story I discovered an added twist to the plot of this story that I continue to ponder.

What I did not realize is that about 15 months into the journey from Mount Sinai to the Promised Land of Canaan all the Israelites landed in Kadesh Barnea. Remember when the 12 spies surveyed the Promised Land (Numbers 13)? Their home base was Kadesh. It was at the base of the Promised Land of Canaan. It had a water supply, livestock and vegetation there. They had “just enough.” They had found complacency without the fruitfulness of the Promised Land.

“And the time from our leaving Kadesh-barnea until we crossed the brook Zered was 38 years, until the entire generation that is, the men of war, had perished from the camp, as the Lord had sworn to them. For indeed the hand of the Lord was against them, to destroy them from the camp, until they had perished.” –Deuteronomy 2:14-15.

In fact, two and one-half tribes—the tribes of Gad, Reuben and half of Manasseh—liked Kadesh Barnea so much there they CHOSE to settle east of the Jordan and not go into the Promised Land! What?

The beginning of the journey from Mount Sinai to Kadesh was swift and jubilant. Sad doubt and delay soon followed. Israelites were hesitant and plunged down into wasted years of wandering in the wilderness.

Moses interceded for them over and over.

The wilderness is not the barrier to the Promised Land.

Wandering in the wilderness is the barrier to the Promised Land.

 The Promised Land “Canaan” Allotment of Land Among the Twelve Tribes of Israel. Note that Reuben, Gad and half of Manasseh settled to the right/east of the Jordan. 

Kadesh Barnea is a beautiful oasis. Ruins of the ancient city can be found today. Kadesh could even be considered to be an “Oasis of Complacency.”

Kadesh is where Moses struck the rock and water gushed out. Moses’ patience had worn thin. The Israelites had complained about everything. In a fit of anger Moses called them rebels and struck the rock instead of speaking to it. Water gushed out . God was faithful and kept His promise, even though Moses disobeyed. Because of striking that rock, Moses was not permitted to enter the Promised Land. He was able to see it from a distance before he died at 120 years old.

“Then Moses went up from the plains of Moab to Mount Nebo to the top of Pisgah, which is opposite Jericho. And the Lord showed him all the land, Gilead as far as Dan, all Naphtali, the land of Ephraim and Manasseh, all the land of Judah, as far as the western sea…This is the land of which I swore to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob. I will give it to your offspring. I have let you see it with your eyes, but you shall not go over there. So Moses the servant of the Lord died there in the land of Moab…” –Deuteronomy 34:1-5

Can you imagine being so close to seeing your dreams and goals fulfilled as a leader that you settle at the brink of your “Promised Land”?

What are some signs that you are settling in “Kadesh Barnea,” for less than your Promised Land?

  1. Your fear of risk outweighs your faith.
  2. You are satisfied and don’t want more.
  3. Your passion wanes.
  4. Spiritual warfare seems to be quieted.

Ouch. I am so convicted by these four signs  and can trace back in my faith journey the times I’ve settled in my Kadesh Barnea before getting to my Promised Land God-sized vision/goal line.  

The enemy can’t destroy us but he will certainly try to distract. If the enemy is on your  trail, you are still on God’s journey.

One of my favorite Charles Spurgeon quotes is, “By perseverance, the snail reached the ark.”

Friend, keep pursuing and persevering toward your Promised Land of dreams and God-sized vision on earth and toward heaven for eternity.

Reflection: 

How does this message resonate with you? 

Recharge: 

What actions will you take to keep persevering through Kadesh Barnea to get to the Promised Land of your God-sized vision and goals.

March Forth on March 4th

Today is on the only day of the year that is a declaration, a proclamation, a command.

March Fourth.

March Forth.

Friend, what are your dreams? Today, march forth with them. Keep going. Persevere.

I just learned today is a holiday.

“March Forth is an annual unofficial holiday celebrated on March 4 to encourage everyone to work towards achieving their dreams. It aims to provide an opportunity for people to take calculated risks towards achieving their goals and developing themselves. It is a special day to take a stand against procrastination or the faux reasons that tend to creep into our heads and discourage us from even trying. The name was made up as a homophone of the day ‘March Fourth.’ It is also the shortened version of the full name — ‘March Forth and Do Something Day.’ ” https://nationaltoday.com/march-forth/ 

The Windshield Is Bigger Than the Rearview Mirror for a Reason

Happy 2nd Week of 2025! Perspective.  At these first sunsets and full moon  of 2025, I am reminded of how much I love sunrises and sunsets. I am in awe of their beauty. Sunrises and sunsets come every day, whether we are ready or not.

As we embark on a brand new, shiny 2025, may we reflect on the good of 2024 and look forward to an even brighter 2025.

May we remember the windshield is much bigger than the rearview mirror for a reason.

Let’s give ourselves some grace.

We have so much to look forward to.

“Behold, I am doing a new thing: now it springs forth. Do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.” —Isaiah 43:19

What are your looking forward to in 2025? What lessons do we want to learn and take away from 2024?

What are you praying for? I encourage you to write a letter to your future self. I just wrote a letter to my 60-year-old self (seven years away) with what I pray will have happened. I will keep it in my Bible.

Be encouraged, friend.
Happy New Year!!!